Sana ‘yan lang…

Hindi lahat ng pag-ibig ay tinutugon

Alam mo na dapat ito ngayon

Natuto na tayong sawayin

Ang kislap na sumusungaw

Sa mata

Pagod nang sumalubong

Ang kaluluwa

Wala nang sasal ang dibdib

Wala nang kaligkig sa batok

Wala nang tibok ang kuyukot

Bihasa na tayo sa dapat gawin:

Isang hugot ng hininga

Isang ngiti sa sarili

Isang madaliang tula—

Balik ang napahiyang kislap

Sa likod

Ng mata.

Pistok

Ganito isinasagawa iyun:

Magsasalita ka

Magsasalita ako

Iiling ka

Iiling ako

At mag-uusap tayo

Kung kailan uli tayo mag-uusap

Pero magtatalo muli tayo

Kung kailangan talaga nating mag-usap

At magkakasundo tayo na kailangan

Talaga nating mag-usap

Kaya

Magsasalita ako

Magsasalita ka

Iiling ako

Iiling ka

At mag-uusap uli tayo

Kung kailangan uli tayong mag-uusap

Kung kailan uli tayo mag-uusap

Kung kailan ka magsasalita

At kailan ako magsasalita

Kailan uli tayo magsasalita

Magsasalita tayo

Iiling tayo

Magsasalita tayo

Iiling tayo

Paulit-ulit

Hanggang di nangangawit

Ang ating mga panga

At di nalalagutan ng litid ang leeg

Sa pagsasalita

At pag-iling-iling

Sabagay,

Mabuti na rin itong ehersisyo

Hangga’t hindi pa natin naihahanda

Ang sari-sarili

Sa pakikinig

At pagtangu-tango.

Yesterday, I cried.

Yesterday, I cried.

I came home, went straight to my room,

sat on the edge of my bed, kicked off my shoes,

and i had myself a good cry.

I cried until my nose was running all over my pillow.

I cried until my ears were hot.

I cried until my head was hurting so bad

that i could hardly see the pile of soiled tissues

lying on the floor at my feet.

I want you to understand, I had myself  a really

good cry yesterday.

     Yesterday, I cried.

For all the days that I was too busy,

or too tired, or too mad to cry.

I cried for all the days, and all the ways,

and all the times I had dishonored, disrespected,

and disconnected my Self from myself,

only to have it reflected back to me in the ways

others did to me the same things I

had already done to myself.

I cried for all the things I had given, only to have them stolen;

for all the things I had asked for that had yet to show up;

for all the things I had accomplished, only to give them away,

to people in circumstances, whiich left me feeling empty,

and battered and plain old used..

I cried because there really does come a time when

the only thing left for you to do is cry.

You still linger, and I hate it.

To you know who you are. I know you may not able to read this. Coz I know you’re busy trying to win her back. The fact that you have not been texting me, really makes me blue. You still love your ex. You should have killed me when we were still together coz now, I feel like dying. I lost you. You still love her. Now, where am I to go? I still think of you. But you still love her.

Friends are treasures :)

This was a surprise party for my friend Una, (the one with dark blue polo). It was her bday a day after Velentine’s, and she did not have an idea that we are going to throw her a party. We were in Middleton Apartelle waiting for her to arrive. We prepared food like spaghetti, cake, steak, balloons and flowers. We all worked for it. We even brought our kids for them to have fun swimming. She was so surprised, in fact she was teary-eyed. We did this for her because she is such a sweet friend. Every time she  goes to the United States, she never fails to bring gifts and pasalubong for each one of us. She helps without something in return. I think that’s what true and genuine friendship is 🙂

How to get over a broken heart?

It’s happened to all of us at some point. You can’t eat, you can’t sleep…you have a broken heart. It’s time to put the ice cream down, and move forward…you never know who just may be around the corner.

1. Allow Yourself Time To Grieve.
Truly getting over someone takes time. Give yourself free reign to cry, rant and rave, and listen to sad music while looking at old pictures. Use this time to think about the relationship and what you want out of your next one, watch sad movies, and day by day, it will get easier.

2. Stay Busy.
I know how it feels to want to lay in bed all day and think of him, but there comes a time when you have to force yourself to get out into the world and do the things you used to enjoy. You are still you, just single and fabulous. Go to the gym, hang out with friends, take your dog for a walk. Soon you won’t have to think about doing things-you just will.

3. Write Down What You Want Out Of Your Next Relationship.
Relationships are a two way street, and it’s doubtful you got to heartbreak city alone. Take responsibility for your part in the break-up and honestly evaluate what you can do differently next time. On the flip side, use this time to really think about what you want in a partner. Were there things about your Ex that really bothered you, or qualities you absolutely loved? I find writing things down makes them more tangible and real.

4. Get Back Out There.
When you feel ready, start dating again. I’m not talking “rebound” here. Take it slow but remember that a simple date doesn’t mean you’re committed for life, and that you’ll probably have to go on many dates before you find someone you want to be with indefinitely. Don’t close yourself off to the possibilities of new love just because your heart is mending, because you never know who is around the corner.  Try not to compare your new relationships with your previous one, as everyone is different…that’s the beauty of dating.

source: http://www.welovedates.com

Weeeh?!? di nga?!

Beware of some pick-up lines!

• “I need a bandage, because I hurt my knee when I fell for you.”
• “I must be lost. I thought paradise was further south.”
• “If a star fell every time I thought of you, the sky would be empty.”
•  “I’m having vision problems. I can -t take my eyes off you.”
• “When God made you, he was showing off.”
• “It’s not my fault I’ve fallen for you. You tripped me.”
• “I’ve lost my phone number, so can I have yours?”
• “I have a library card in my wallet, so can I check you out?”
•  “My lip hurts. Will you kiss it better?”
• “Will you hold this for me while I go for a walk?” (your hand)
• “The only thing your eyes haven’t told me is your name.”
• “Here I am. What were your other two wishes?”                                                                                                                                                            Alert girls! or else…..you will be in danger!

Mellow Yellow Awareness Monday

It’s all about HEPATITIS.

According to WHO Hepatitis is an inflammation of the liver, most commonly caused by a viral infection. There are five main hepatitis viruses, referred to as types A, B, C, D and E. These five types are of greatest concern because of the burden of illness and death they cause and the potential for outbreaks and epidemic spread. In particular, types B and C lead to chronic disease in hundreds of millions of people and, together, are the most common cause of liver cirrhosis and cancer.

Hepatitis A and E are typically caused by ingestion of contaminated food or water. Hepatitis B, C and D usually occur as a result of parenteral contact with infected body fluids. Common modes of transmission for these viruses include receipt of contaminated blood or blood products, invasive medical procedures using contaminated equipment and for hepatitis B transmission from mother to baby at birth, from family member to child, and also by sexual contact.

Back in highschool, I was also contaminated with Hepatitis A, I spent christmas in Cagayan de Oro Medical Center, sad right? 😦 The doctor said I must have gotten it from the food I ate in school. But don’t worry, it’s not transmittable. I just can’t forget how worried my parents were, their love for me is truly unconditional. 🙂

The lesson I learned is that never eat the food when you are not sure it’s safe and clean. And at home, have your utensils sterilized by boiling it with water.

11 days then it’s the day of the hearts <3

Since Valentines day is fast-approaching, I would like to share these thoughts, it might just make you fall in love some more ❤

“When you are in love you can’t fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams.”
– Dr Seuss

“And if it all falls apart, I will know deep in my heart, the only dream that mattered had come true. In this life, I was loved by you.”
– Collin Raye

“Two souls with but a single thought. Two hearts that beat as one.”
– Friedrich Halm

“If I know what love is, it is because of you.”
– Herman Hesse

“Friends will keep you sane, Love could fill your heart, A lover can warm your bed, But lonely is the soul without a mate.”
– David Pratt

“Grow old along with me; the best is yet to be.”
– Robert Browning

“Love makes everything that is heavy light.”
– Thomas P. Kempis

“If kisses were the water I would give you the sea,
If hugs were the leaves I would give you a tree.
But if love was time, I would give you eternity.”
– Unknown

 

21 memos from a child. Moms must read!

1. Don’t spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all that I ask for. I’m only testing you.
2. Don’t be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes me feel more secure.
3. Don’t let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in my early stages.
4. Don’t make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly “big”.
5. Don’t correct me in front of people if you can help it. I’ll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private.
6. Don’t make me feel my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values.
7. Don’t protect me from consequences. I sometimes need to learn the painful way.
8. Don’t be too upset when I say, “I hate you”. It isn’t you I hate but your power to thwart me.
9. Don’t take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need.
10. Don’t nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.
11. Don’t forget that I can not explain myself as well as I should like. This is why I’m not always very accurate.
12. Don’t make rash promises. Remember that I feel badly let down when promises are broken.
13. Don’t tax my honesty too much. I am easily frightened into telling lies.
14. Don’t be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.
15. Don’t tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real, and you can do much to reassure me if you try to understand.
16. Don’t put me off when I ask questions. If I do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.
17. Don’t ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock if I found out that you are fallible.
18. Don’t ever think it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm toward you.
19. Don’t forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult to keep pace with me, but please try.
20. Don’t forget I love experimenting. I couldn’t get on without it, so please put up with it.
21. Don’t forget that I can’t thrive without lots of understanding love, but I don’t need to tell you, do I?